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Do you know why your frustrated?


Being fustrated isn’t a bad thing if you do not allow it to beat you up. When you feel your frustration levels rising do you ever stop to think and ask yourself exactly why you are frustrated? Many times this is easy to fix when we ask ourselves the right questions in order to determine the best conflict resolutions. Don’t talk yourself in circles when you are experiencing frustration.

Take the necessary steps to come up with a positive solution to enable yourself to get away from the frustrating situations or simply freeing yourself emotionally.

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Accept because it’s apart of life… every time itā€™s not in our favor we should still have the courage to accept ourselves in the situation for what it is even after committing many mistakes. Why can’t we accept the situations we are in at times?

Sometimes we feel helpless about some situations however I personally don’t think there is a problem with that, after all we never question the good times so why should we always question the bad times? Their will be situations that are completely out of your control you will just find yourself in.

The truth is – Acceptance heals us

It may be hard to accept at first but once you do, you will find comfort in not pointing ā˜šŸæĀ fingers or self pity but coming up with solutions.

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ā€œAcceptance Of Self & Situationsā€

Every part of your body is telling you to turn around, but your heart says to keep going. You can feel yourself falling harder and slipping faster into this unknown void that you know is not going to lead anywhere good.

You no longer have any self-control. All of your independence and freedom is suddenly sinking from your grasp, and you donā€™t even know how to brace yourself for whatā€™s next.

Thereā€™s mystery and allure in this special personā€™s demeanour, something drawing you in from the get-go. I felt a sense of unexplored rebellion how he could take me to new heights and control my anxiety. Ā At first, it all seems magical, but what goes up must always come down.

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You fall into a tailspin of maddened, crazed emotions, and every single bit of it is new to you. Against all my own preaching, I became vulnerable in front of someone who could never fully respect that. Despite warning signs and a sickening gut feeling, you allow yourself to feel this range of emotions and donā€™t fully process things until you finally vocalize the words ā€œI love you.ā€

Everything is telling you to stop, but you canā€™t.

You know this isnā€™t good. There were reasons you swore you would never fall for someone like this, but none of them seem to matter.Ā But thatā€™s not to say itā€™s all bad. It feels like youā€™re in a light haze; everything is dream-like. The good is really good, but the bad is really really bad.

Then your heart gets broken…

Itā€™s inevitable ~> When, from the start, the red flags were everywhere, you canā€™t avoid the shattered heartbreakšŸ’” If youā€™re strong and still have a tiny reserve of self control left, maybe you can be the one who can save yourself & break it off. Or maybe the other person gets tired of you and leave you destitute in your sea of emotions.

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DANGEROUS LOVE NEVER HAS A HAPPY ENDING. THATā€™S WHY ALL THE GOOD LOVE SONGS ARE ALWAYS SAD.

Maybe this is just the ranting of a woman Ā who has been Ā scarred Ā deep enough by bitter matters of the heartā€¦ Or, maybe this is what actually happens when you fall for someone you swore you never would. I always say to trust your instinct; if you know you shouldnā€™t fall for them, then find some way to make sure you donā€™t.

Wait for someone who isnā€™t going to leave you in tiny pieces longing for the same pulsating romance that you once had, no matter how appealing falling for the bad boy (or girl) may seem.

 

THATā€™S HOW IT FEELS TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YOU SWORE YOU NEVER WOULD.

ā€œHow It Feels To Fall In Love With Someone You Shouldnā€™t Haveā€

Considering the feelings and well-being of others is crucial. It is the foundation of a democratic, civil, and just society. 

Humans can become overly concerned with the feelings of those around them to the detriment of their own welfare & experience. It is possible to be too considerate, and or too nice.

Eventually you hit that point in your life when youā€™re no longer interested in convincing people how you feel and who or what is valid in your life.

Once you know your truth and what works for you, never allow any situation to comprise it. Love and embrace your truth; and never deviate from it!

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ā€œIā€™m Good With My Truthā€

Some people wonā€™t appreciate you until they lose you, but no matter how much they swear theyā€™ve changed, no matter how sorry they are, & no matter how bad you want to let them back in, you have to start choosing you first.

You deserve better, you deserve someone who sees your worth from day one & treat you like they want to be treated. You are worthy of being genuinely loved.

Make today the day you start loving and choosing yourself first!

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ā€œYou Are Worth Being Lovedā€

  • No storm, not even the one in your life, can last forever. The storm is just passing over.
  • Set an intention to heal any unexpressed anger that may be present in your life.
  • Offer yourself the love and acceptance you need to move yourself beyond who you have not been and what you have not done.
  • If you really want to be wealthy, prosperous, or abundantly blessed, take your focus off of money and put it on your spiritual self.
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It’s hard to admit it, but if youā€™re reading this youā€™re in a place of hurt. There is a problem that is causing you to suffer mentally, physically and emotionally. Ā I just want to let you know it will all be okay.

If you were to look back at your life, or those around you, there is a noticeable pattern of life being a constant flux of good and bad weeks. When things are good, itā€™s difficult to foresee that life will eventually come colliding down on you to test your character.

If I were to imagine someone reading this who wasnā€™t in a state of struggle, they will chuckle at this post for addressing ā€˜common sense.ā€™ However, it is different for someone who is hurt. Common sense and logic isnā€™t a solution because youā€™re dealing with emotions.

This is the nature of life and there isnā€™t anything you can do to prevent it. Humans are given a wide range of emotions that are supposed to be felt at one point in your life ā€“ and now itā€™s your turn feeling it.Ā  Youā€™re being put in a situation that will force you to rise from the bottom and a valuable lesson will emerge from it after itā€™s over.

I can tell you with certainty that your struggle is not permanent. But you can prolong it if you donā€™t act accordingly.

Embrace your pain and make it a part of who you are. Youā€™re currently going through an obstacle that is universally happening to a lot of others. Take this time to gain self-awareness not only to help yourself, but understand and relate to every other human on this planet. You are your own case study.

Donā€™t indulge in your struggle for too long. Itā€™s healthy to immerse yourself in your emotions because that is an indication youā€™re aware of whatā€™s happening. Itā€™s okay to feel the need to take a day or two to listen to sad music, or distance yourself from others or even stay home in bed. But this is temporary and should remain so.Ā Your solution isnā€™t build yourself a fortress from the world, it is by getting back into the world and channeling that struggle into a creative beneficiary to your character.

Life isnā€™t about trying your hardest to remain happy at all times. The notion that you must remain in a state of joy at all times is an ideology you must erase from your mind. It is unrealistic. Human life is an existence of feelings that will flow through you everyday.

You canā€™t block out the emotions you feel, but you can choose how you react to them. And thatā€™s what life is about.

As I end this blog, I want to let you know Iā€™m writing this from a place of struggle myself. By writing this, it has helped me feel better about my own situation. And perhaps, if it resonated with me ā€“ it will resonate with you. So to whoever is reading thisā€¦

Remember that this struggle will be over soon. I promise you it will. Try your hardest to remain clear headed and donā€™t make impulse decisions because youā€™re fueled by emotion.

Take a deep breath, and now take another one. Everything will be ok.

 

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ā€œIt Will Be Okayā€