It’s hard to admit it, but if youāre reading this youāre in a place of hurt. There is a problem that is causing you to suffer mentally, physically and emotionally. Ā I just want to let you know it will all be okay.
If you were to look back at your life, or those around you, there is a noticeable pattern of life being a constant flux of good and bad weeks. When things are good, itās difficult to foresee that life will eventually come colliding down on you to test your character.
If I were to imagine someone reading this who wasnāt in a state of struggle, they will chuckle at this post for addressing ācommon sense.ā However, it is different for someone who is hurt. Common sense and logic isnāt a solution because youāre dealing with emotions.
This is the nature of life and there isnāt anything you can do to prevent it. Humans are given a wide range of emotions that are supposed to be felt at one point in your life ā and now itās your turn feeling it.Ā Youāre being put in a situation that will force you to rise from the bottom and a valuable lesson will emerge from it after itās over.
I can tell you with certainty that your struggle is not permanent. But you can prolong it if you donāt act accordingly.
Embrace your pain and make it a part of who you are. Youāre currently going through an obstacle that is universally happening to a lot of others. Take this time to gain self-awareness not only to help yourself, but understand and relate to every other human on this planet. You are your own case study.
Donāt indulge in your struggle for too long. Itās healthy to immerse yourself in your emotions because that is an indication youāre aware of whatās happening. Itās okay to feel the need to take a day or two to listen to sad music, or distance yourself from others or even stay home in bed. But this is temporary and should remain so.Ā Your solution isnāt build yourself a fortress from the world, it is by getting back into the world and channeling that struggle into a creative beneficiary to your character.
Life isnāt about trying your hardest to remain happy at all times. The notion that you must remain in a state of joy at all times is an ideology you must erase from your mind. It is unrealistic. Human life is an existence of feelings that will flow through you everyday.
You canāt block out the emotions you feel, but you can choose how you react to them. And thatās what life is about.
As I end this blog, I want to let you know Iām writing this from a place of struggle myself. By writing this, it has helped me feel better about my own situation. And perhaps, if it resonated with me ā it will resonate with you. So to whoever is reading thisā¦
Remember that this struggle will be over soon. I promise you it will. Try your hardest to remain clear headed and donāt make impulse decisions because youāre fueled by emotion.
Take a deep breath, and now take another one. Everything will be ok.
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