If a guy says he’ll do anything for you and then calls late at night and begs you to come over claiming to be too tired to make the drive over to your place then he has a very loose definition of “anything“.
If he says he really cares about you and misses you but then goes days or weeks without calling or making time to see you because he is swamped at work or some excuse along those lines what he’s really saying is you’re not important enough to make time for.
I had to learn & in some areas of my dating life I’m still learning how to decipher between if a man actually cares for me or am I just something he’s doing for now because he’s bored. Which takes me back to his actions that will speak for his motive. I would recommend focusing more on what he does and less on what he says.
Just make sure that you have a strong sense of self and a life outside of any relationship.
Women we can’t solely rely on him to be the sole center of our universe because the moment he feels that kind of pressure 🏃🏽he’ll run!