“This Has Got To Stop”


As women, we’re always critiquing and picking apart our body by
constantly bashing ourselves about our appearance. It’s easy to convince ourselves that we’re ugly.

The other day, I read this status on Facebook, “I might be ugly but at least I ain’t stupid cause ugly can be fixed and your stupidity can’t.” I was absolutely disgusted. As a woman, why do we feel the need to call ourselves, “ugly?” Why is it necessary to put ourselves down?Everyone is attractive in their own way.  

Your personality might be cute as a button and that’s why so many people like you. Or, you could be the woman who can always turn a negative into a positive, and that makes you beautiful in people’s eyes. We need to stop labeling ourselves as “unworthy” “ugly” or “stupid.”

So what if you don’t wear a size 8 or you have a rather large nose,  that doesn’t mean you’re unworthy of love and acceptance.

Everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy, but it has to start with you loving, accepting, and embracing yourself. We must start believing and having self confidence.

In the past, only tall and thin-framed girls could be models. 

But, now, you see plus size models are just as successful and beautiful. 

Who ever tells you, you must be skinny to be attractive can go to hell!  Feel comfortable and content in your own skin and feel proud of who you are. 


Stop telling yourself you’re hideous when you look at yourself in the mirror. Your assignment is to write a few positive aspects about yourself and post it on your bathroom mirror. 

Then I want you to write at least 5 positive characteristics about yourself, repeat them to yourself every single day.  

Don’t ever put yourself down again. Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy and what’s unfortunate about this is nothing will change if you don’t alter the way you see yourself.  


❤️One Love💃🏽




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