What I’m asking you to do is simply accept me for me. The parts of me you like, the parts of me you don’t, the parts of me that drives you crazy and the ugly parts of me you wish you could zap away.
If someone wants to be a part of your life they’ll make an effort to be in it so don’t bother reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn’t make an effort to stay.
Trust me I know it’s hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to leave you.
You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted, for having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think your feelings are wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s hard to keep it inside.
The aftermath can have your thoughts all over the place. He wasn’t your boyfriend however on the other hand, he wasn’t just a friend either. Instead, The relationship was elastic, stretching between those two extremes depending on who else is around, how much either of you had to drink, and other varying factors. But the trick is never giving more than you are willing to lose.
Love is waking up thinking of someone and going to bed thinking of them. Love is missing them as soon as they leave. Love is the butterflies that flutter in your stomach when you hear their voice. Love is forever growing and never dies.
I sure we all crave that unexpected kind of love. The one when you never know what’s going to happen next, but you trust and believe everything will be okay as long as you’re with him. You trust him with your head and your heart; he’s your everything. And best of all, you’re his everything.
If this blog pertains to you I highly recommend that you buy a blank notebook & draw a huge heart on the cover. Don’t write anything negative in there . If you need another outlet, make a separate notebook. This one is all about love, personal growth, and getting back up. Fill it with beautiful images, reaffirming thoughts, and quotes. Write in it every day, and each day write one thing you’re grateful for in your life.
Anyone can easily walk away from somebody if they never loved you. Nobody is forced to stay; we all have choices. The real test is if someone would rather stay with you even though walking away would be so much easier.