Yes, we have all been there. We have dated guys, gone through the motions of pretending he’s the one, and some have even been lead to believe that a “fling” could lead to true love.
I guarantee if you scroll through your contact list in your cell phone, you’ll probably come across more names of guys it didn’t work out with as opposed to when it actually did. What’s the problem you asked?
You ignored all the red flags as they were happening. You were constantly trying to paint a picture in your thoughts that said he IS your soul mate because you never wanted to admit to those who truly care about you the obvious truth he really is “NOT The One.”
He Texts You More Than He Sees You
Unless he has agoraphobia and is afraid to leave his house, there should be no reason he can’t make an effort to grab dinner or drinks with you. Don’t be fooled by the constant text messages because “he is so busy” If he’s not asking you out: RUN!
He Has An EX Who Might As Well Be On TMZ!
The amount of times he talks about her. We get it! “Your EX did you wrong, but she is beautiful, and she is the mom of your kids”. Why are you still talking about her again? Guys who harp on past relationships often wish things would have went a different way with their ex’s. Whether they wish they were still together or still talking, the bottom line is he’s not focusing on you. Instead he’s focusing on her Facebook profile pictures while you’re sleeping.
He would Rather Spend Time “Alone” With You Rather Than Hanging Out In Public Places
Yes, time spent one-on-one is fantastic and is needed for a healthy relationship. However, if he constantly refuses to have lunch outside of your place or his and he refuses to meet your parents or friends than he is basically saying in the most unspoken kind of way he doesn’t care about your family or friends who have defined your life for the past x amount of years. Quietly, show him to the door. Actions really do speak louder than words.
He Doesn’t Remember Important Details About You
This is a BIG one. A guy who is “The One” should remember every important detail you tell him – your parent’s names, your favorite restaurant, and the reason why you were single prior to meeting. The point is, if he’s not remembering things when you tell him, than what is he doing? Clearly not listening or paying any attention to you. #selfabsorbed #selfish #cocky #boybye 🚶💨